Showing posts with label how to fall in love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how to fall in love. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

How to Be a Girlfriend

If you find yourself unable to hold down a steady relationship with a guy, and you are left thinking that you probably are not a relationship material, then the information contained here may be of use to you. You can alternatively see a counselor if things don't seem to improve, but first lets cover the basics. Men do tend to withdraw and a woman may be asking why men withdraw, but being a sweet girlfriend can help get over that.

The first thing you have to understand is that in a relationship situation two mature human beings are involved and not a monopoly where one party dominates the decision making all the time. What makes a relationship work is the level to which both parties are willing to compromise to make things work. The bottom line is in a relationship you have win some and lose some.

What i am saying is not for you to just accept anything in a relationship for the sake of peace, but be mature enough to have an argument  and still be willing to comeback and workout a solution to the problem. A relationship is a two way street, and if one party to the relationship always has to be right then sooner or later the relationship will collapse.