If you find yourself unable to hold down a steady relationship with a guy, and you are left thinking that you probably are not a relationship material, then the information contained here may be of use to you. You can alternatively see a counselor if things don't seem to improve, but first lets cover the basics. Men do tend to withdraw and a woman may be asking why men withdraw, but being a sweet girlfriend can help get over that.
The first thing you have to understand is that in a relationship situation two mature human beings are involved and not a monopoly where one party dominates the decision making all the time. What makes a relationship work is the level to which both parties are willing to compromise to make things work. The bottom line is in a relationship you have win some and lose some.
What i am saying is not for you to just accept anything in a relationship for the sake of peace, but be mature enough to have an argument and still be willing to comeback and workout a solution to the problem. A relationship is a two way street, and if one party to the relationship always has to be right then sooner or later the relationship will collapse.
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